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05/24/07

Love Thursday: You

Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in Older Parent Adoption Blog at 03:01 am , 484 words, 120 views  
Categories: Photos and Emotions
I've been blogging here on Adoptionblogs.com for well more than a year now ... a bit longer on the International Adoption Blog than this one, but in this community, nonetheless.

For months I've been writing at least 43 posts per month per blog, which is a heck of a lot of words to string together, and I'll admit there are days when the work is as hard as trying to draw water from a dry well.

It's not the writing that has me pacing, pulling out my hair and ferreting through the Internet like ... well, like a hungry ferret out to find a few tasty tidbits that might also provide some nourishment. I can manage to grind out 300 to 500 words about just about anything, but it's the "about anything' part that can cause an hour of frustration.

International adoption is a wide topic, as wide as the world in fact, and there's an almost constant supply of news, information, opinion and such that relates.

Older parenting, however ... now, that's a different kettle of aging mackerel.

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I used to have a couple of geezer partners here, but they've abandoned ship or sailed off into the sunset or have done whatever it is that old bloggers do. (Old bloggers never die, they just link to a higher category?) Now, though, I'm on my own trying to keep you all informed, entertained and clicking on over here to see what's new.

Hence ... and I do love hence ... I'm turning to ya'll for a little help.

It seems to me that I have the greatest bunch of readers in Blogland. A smart and funny free-floating group that surprisingly ranges widely in age ... surprising only because of the topic of this blog, but maybe not so much so since everyone will be older someday, with luck ... you're so much of what keeps me thinking, seeking, wondering, contemplating my own and my children's navels and trying to put together at least a little bit of interest for as many as possible day after day.

Comments make my week, and I love the interchange I have with many of you that carries off this page and into emails where I laugh and learn even more.

So, anyone want to throw me a bone here and let me know what sort of things you'd like me to write about? You don't have to be specific, just point me in a direction. Or, if you prefer, give me a hoop to jump through and I'll see what I can dig out from the other side and pass along.

You're why I'm here, and I want to do the best I can for all of you.

In honor of how important you are and how much I appreciate you taking your time and spending a bit of it with me ... throwing bones, or not ... this Love Thursday is dedicated to my fabulous readers.

Thank you!

Comments, Pingbacks:

Comment from: Coley S. [Member] Email · http://unplanned-pregnancy.adoptionblogs.com/
You crack me up darling! When I grow up, I wanna be quirky like you! ;)
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Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Thanks ... I think.
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Comment from: Heather Lowe [Member] Email · http://unplanned-pregnancy.adoptionblogs.com/
Interviews with those who were raised by older parents?

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Comment from: Faith Allen [Member] Email · http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/
Have you done a series on issues that are specific to older parents (versus younger parents), both positive and negative? I have some older adoptive friends (not that I am a spring chicken, either!!), and they seem to have much more patience with the children but to get more physically exhausted by the end of the day, especially by the little ones. Or how about future considerations, such as funding college for a child while planning for your own retirement?

Another topic idea is kind of morbid but is worth discussing. I went to college with a lady who was a "surprise" when she came along because mom was in her mid-40's and dad in his mid-50's. Both passed away while she was still in high school, so her much-older brother served as her guardian until she reached adulthood. Perhaps you can talk about safeguards for a child, such as making sure you have a current will with a guardian named, a trust fund for the child, etc.

Sorry to get so morbid this early in the morning! :0) My father passed away when I was a teenager, even though he was only 43, so I know how important it is to have your affairs in order for the sake of your children. And he was not even an "older" parent!!

- Faith
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 05:38
Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
You are my favorite blogger Sandra, even tho my DH and I do not fall into the older parent territory. In fact, we typically read blogs based upon the title or pictures involved, not the category. You have a wonderful sense of humor, are intelligent and witty. Plus, you have really gorgeous kiddos to peer at, even if they are half way around the world from us! Keep it up, we love you back.
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 07:17
Comment from: BEACHLADY [Member] Email
I love to read anything you blog!!

Faith had some good ideas and so did Heather!

Might be nice if you could find some adoptees who were raised by older parents and get their opinion.
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 07:29
Comment from: Deb Donatti [Member] Email · http://open.adoptionblogs.com
Sandra, I always love your blog,your rapier wit too!
How about talking about older stay at home moms, and the guff we get for our decision? I can't tell you how many people have been negative to me because they feel like I am too "old" to be staying home.
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 13:10
Comment from: Faith Allen [Member] Email · http://hoping.adoptionblogs.com/
"I can't tell you how many people have been negative to me because they feel like I am too "old" to be staying home."

OH MY GOSH!! If you need me to rip them a new one for you, then let me at them!! LOL

As a fellow stay-at-home mom, it is nobody else's flippin' business how I choose to spend my day. I cannot imagine trying to make somebody feel badly about staying at home (or working, for that matter), doubly so based upon her age. Your children's needs are still the same, whether you are 20 or 50.

- Faith
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 13:32
Comment from: BEACHLADY [Member] Email
You go Faith!!!

I just cracked up laughing!!!
PermalinkPermalink 05/24/07 @ 14:07
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Thanks everyone. I'm busily following up on these great suggestions and hope to have new stuff soon.

In the meantime, I now know who to call if I need someone to rip a new one on anyone!
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