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08/29/07

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Posted by : Sandra Hanks Benoiton in Older Parent Adoption Blog at 01:04 am , 645 words, 141 views  
Categories: Special Occasions

I have one of those small world things possibly going on now that has me amused at possibilities, so I'd like to share.

One of the regular readers here on the blogs, a geezer dad of teens adopted from foster care named John, has clued me into the fact that he's on a fishing trip in Oregon at the moment. Since fishing trips now come with WiFi, apparently, he's in blog contact even as he relaxes in the crisp mountain air ... I can almost smell the piney-woodsy tang from here ... and letting me know the fish are few and far between. (I've heard that one before.)

Nice. I like this sort of contact with readers, getting to know more about you all than just the adoption-related stuff that has us agreeing whole-heartedly, disputing interpretations, explaining perspectives and such. It's warming, somehow, and so often forges connections that lead to deeper understanding all the way around, including the adoption-related stuff.

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One of my readers recently shared her family's grief over having to have their loving pooch put down, and talked about how her son was dealing with it all. Another sent me some bits of smile that were copies of children's letters to God.

Some, knowing I live in the back of beyond, have taken it upon themselves to try to keep me somewhat up-to-date on the latest movies, toys, etc.. Others give a heads up when they come across something in their adoption neighborhood that the broader community might find interesting.

So, this blogging turns out to be so much more than the "logging" part of the word would indicate. In fact, it seems in shortening web log to blog, the most important part got cut off. It's web that is the operative bit. Maybe the better brand-new-word-for-the-90s should have been weblo. After all, isn't there a Boy Scout rank for that already?

Okay, there's another way to pronouce and emphasize 'weblo', but we'll ignore that rather rude take and live with the realization that "blog" is here to stay no matter how nicely sticky the web that ties us all together may be.

But back to John and the small world thing ...

At around two o'clock tomorrow afternoon, John will be piloting his small aircraft over a Northern California Central Valley town on his way back down the state ... plane full of freshly-caught fish, I'm sure ... the Northern California Central Valley town my mother lives in.

Having shared with him in an email that my mom's house is in his flight path, he has offered to wag his wings as he passes over.

I have emailed my mom with the ETO (Estimated Time Over), and she will make a point of being in her backyard in and around 2pm.

Don't you love it?

Here I am on the other side of the planet arranging an encounter that will be separated by 6,000 feet or something between someone I've never met, and most likely never will but know nonetheless, and my mother, who'll be waving like mad at every private plane she sees tomorrow afternoon just in case this person neither of us would recognize if he knocked on our door happens to make his plane go wobbly for a few minutes as a message from me ... twelve time zones away ... to her down on the ground right below him.

She lives near the airport in her town, so I suspect she'll have a bit of a stiff neck by Friday.

Sorry, Mom.

Do I need to mention again how much I love this age we live in?

I dont' think so, but I will tell all you dear readers that I so appreciate you, even if your not about to wag your wings at my mother. Thank you.

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Comment from: emory77 [Member] Email · http://www.bullcityemorys.blogspot.com
how cool! The world really is a lot smaller than we know. That's why it's so important to take of each other and well, the planet too!

I was actually just wondering what happened to John, I hadn't "seen" him around lately.

have a great day! :)
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Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
It's a tiny little thing where places are mysteriously separated by long airplane flights. Confounding!
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 07:17
Comment from: Sunbonnet Sue [Member] Email
love it!
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 07:54
Comment from: Julie Crowley [Member] Email · http://stepparent.adoptionblogs.com/
So that's where John is! LOL

That is too cool Sandra!!
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 11:00
Comment from: AdoptionBlogs Editor [Member] Email · http://editor.adoptionblogs.com
How awesome! Well done, John!
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 11:48
Comment from: John [Member] Email
Sandra, I forgot to tell you, the airplane is red and white. I'll be looking for your Mom.

It is great to take a break, no kids this time though, both are working and starting school. The fishing really is poor, they had some kind of weedologyst get rid of the underwater weeds. He did so well, he got rid of the fish too. Really, its not rotten fishing technique. John
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 21:45
Comment from: Sandra Hanks Benoiton [Member] Email · http://international.adoptionblogs.com/
Red and white ... got it!

No fish ... right.
PermalinkPermalink 08/29/07 @ 22:01
Comment from: Coley S. [Member] Email · http://unplanned-pregnancy.adoptionblogs.com/
My husband just came in here to find out what I am laughing so hard about. How did I miss this before?? This is hilarious, I now have a mental picture of this little grey haired lady (because all old people have grey hair, right?) waving at all the planes!
PermalinkPermalink 08/30/07 @ 08:41
Comment from: soblessed [Member] Email
So, I'm not the only friend updating you on my sappy personal life and interesting tidbits of local lore? Hmmmmmmmmmmmm. Oh well, the more the merrier :)

Don't get over excited about waggling the plane wings, John. Just as Coley has her mental image of Sandra's mom, I have a mental image of poor John giving an over-exuberant plane wave and tumbling out of the plane.....

Hugs and Ben-Gay to your mom, S :)
PermalinkPermalink 08/31/07 @ 09:16
Comment from: John [Member] Email
Coley, hey, all old people have grey hair? That is exactly what we worry about, because we might have a'little' grey hair, we are old! The last time I had to get an update at the DMV, the lady looked at the part of the renewal that listed hair color and asked if it might be time to change the color from brown to grey. Honesty in advertising is not always a good thing.

So, I just did a series of S turns along the course. I did hear someone on the airport frequency say they hoped that guy headed South would figure out what course to fly pretty soon, appearently it was noticable. Exuberant wasn't going to happen, I had a cup of coffee sitting on the floor. Besides the stink if it spilled, I live for coffee. John
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